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The
California Shared
Parenting Alliance (CSPA)
is a group of mental
health professionals,
family law practitioners
and concerned parents
who believe that
children’s need for
frequent and meaningful
contact with both
parents after a divorce
is paramount.
CSPA was organized for
the purpose of passing
AB
1307, a bill which
will clarify California
law and create a clear
presumption that parents
equally share in the
responsibility of joint
custody of their
children unless there is
clear evidence that it
would not be in the
children’s best interest.
While California is more
progressive than most
states in its
understanding of
children's rights, in
many California divorces
children still see one
of the two people they
love most in the world
pushed to the margins of
their lives. AB 1307
protects children's
relationship with both
parents by making it
clear that parents come
before the family law
court with equal rights
to and responsibilities
for their children.
The
current system creates
unnecessary litigation
and added conflict
between parents as they
jockey to position
themselves in the most
favorable light for the
court. By equally
respecting the
bonds children share
with each of their
parents, AB 1307
encourages co-parenting
and cooperation between
divorced couples.
CSPA recognizes that
there are some
situations where joint
custody is harmful to
children, such as in
cases which involve
child abuse, domestic
violence, substance
abuse or other
pathologies. CSPA also
recognizes that there
are some situations
where equal physical
time between parents is
not appropriate, such as
when one parent's job
requires them to travel
extensively or be
stationed far away
from his or her
children.
Research clearly
establishes that shared
custody creates better
outcomes for
children emotionally,
educationally, and
financially. CSPA
believes that in most
cases children's
interests are best
served when their rights
to have a relationship
with both parents is
protected.
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According to Karen
DeCrow, former president
of the National
Organization for Women:
"If there is a divorce
in the family, I urge a
presumption of joint
custody of the children.
Shared parenting is not
only fair to men and
children, it is the best
option for women. After
observing women's rights
and responsibilities for
more than a quarter of a
century of feminist
activism, I conclude
that shared parenting is
great for women, giving
time and opportunity for
female parents to pursue
education, training,
jobs, careers,
profession and leisure.
There is nothing
scientific, logical or
rational in excluding
men or forever holding
women and children as if
in swaddling clothes in
an eternally loving
bondage. Most of us have
acknowledged that women
can do everything that
men can do. It is time
now for us to
acknowledge that men can
do everything women can
do."
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